Course companion & journal

Between the Narrow Places

Grief, rupture, and the work of repair — a study of Eikhah

This is a study of Eikhah — Lamentations — built on the Jewish calendar's own architecture for collective mourning. The arc follows Bein HaMetzarim, the Three Weeks between the seventeenth of Tammuz and the ninth of Av: three weeks of descent, a single concentrated day of rupture at Tisha B'Av, and seven weeks of comfort that follow.

The course draws a direct line from ancient catastrophe to the grief many of us are carrying now — including, unavoidably, the devastation in Gaza and the long reckoning many Jews are doing with political Zionism — without collapsing any of it into the other, and without rushing toward hope the text hasn't earned yet.

Descent

Three Weeks — Eikha, Sinat Chinam, the Nine Days

Rupture

Tisha B'Av — the full reading, sitting low

Comfort

Seven Weeks — the haftarot of consolation, Nachamu through Sos Asis

How the live sessions map to the calendar

SessionFalls withinCovers
Parts 1 & 2Early in the Three Weeks, shortly after 17 TammuzWeek 1 — Eikha
Parts 3 & 4Mid‑Three WeeksWeek 2 — Sinat Chinam
Part 5During the Nine Days (Rosh Chodesh Av onward)Week 3 — The Nine Days
Full ReadingTisha B'Av itselfThe complete text, ideally sunset to sunset

This guide runs on the Hebrew calendar, so the Gregorian dates shift every year. Check this year's Tisha B'Av date and count backward to set the live sessions. The Seven Weeks of Comfort that follow (Weeks 4–10) are self-guided using this companion.

Primary texts

In conversation with

  • Martin Prechtel and Francis Weller, on grief as initiation — held as resonance, not foundation
  • Christina Sharpe, In the Wake — on catastrophe as ongoing rather than a discrete past event
  • Robin Wall Kimmerer, Mahmoud Darwish, Aurora Levins Morales — on memory, erasure, and repair